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Q: I would like to take my dog to outdoor restaurants with me, but they won’t stop barking. What can I do?

A: If your dog feels uneasy or anxious in busy places like restaurants or shops, it is important to respect their feelings and make sure they are comfortable. Like people, dogs have their own personalities; some love being social, while others prefer quiet and calm places. Forcing your dog into situations that make them stressed can lead to more anxiety or larger behavior issues. It is your dog’s choice not to like busy, noisy places.

Watch how your dog acts in public. Do they shake, pant, try to hide behind you, or pull on the leash to leave? These are signs of stress, like barking. They are trying to communicate their discomfort. Instead of putting them in these situations, try slowly getting them used to it if you want them to come with you sometimes. Start with short visits to quiet outdoor cafes or less crowded parks. Bring their favorite treats and toys to help them feel happy. Teaching them to relax on a mat in the low-stress, low-distraction home environment is a first step. Incorporating other games, such as Look at That and Take a Breath, will give your dog further skills to process their surroundings calmly and check in with you.

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Find other ways to spend time with your dog that they enjoy. Go for a walk in the woods, on the beach, or in quieter, dog-friendly areas. Letting them choose the location can provide fun and exercise, and “date time” with your dog. If your dog has friends, set up playdates or walks together.

If you enjoy going to cafes or events, consider leaving your dog at home. Leave them with food puzzle toys and calming music. Your dog doesn’t have to be with you everywhere to have a strong bond. They will likely be more relaxed staying at home, and you can enjoy your time out without worrying about their stress.